LJ Connolly-Hiatt
queer sexologist, educator
& performer
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WHAT DOES A ONE-ON-ONE SEX EDUCATION SESSION INVOLVE?
During a one-on-one sex education session, I will guide you by asking questions and creating a comfortable and affirming space for an in-depth conversation. I will provide you with relevant information, assist with reflection practices, provide you with homework exercises and resources. As I am still training to be a psychotherapist, our sessions will not be therapy based, however I will provide you with a tailored session that provides you with practical tools.
As everyone's experience of sex, sexuality and intimacy is different, our sessions together may look different. During some sessions, I will take a more educational approach, including discussing the science of sex, or I may work through tools with you or we may focus on somatic exercises. In other sessions, we may have a deeper discussion about what's going on for you.
Each session will be tailored to you and your specific needs. Below are some of the major focus areas that I work with:
As everyone's experience of sex, sexuality and intimacy is different, our sessions together may look different. During some sessions, I will take a more educational approach, including discussing the science of sex, or I may work through tools with you or we may focus on somatic exercises. In other sessions, we may have a deeper discussion about what's going on for you.
Each session will be tailored to you and your specific needs. Below are some of the major focus areas that I work with:
FOCUS AREAS:
+ Interaction between gender and sexuality : offer an understanding of how our gender (or questions around gender) can interact with sexuality, including how gender-affirming hormones can interact with sexuality/ intimacy/ pleasure
+ Communication: learning practical tools to help you articulate desires and talk about what you want during sex and intimacy
+ Embodied practices: gaining practical tools and exercises to become more aware and embodied during sex and intimacy
+ Freeing from shame: understanding and releasing negative messages you have been told about your sex life, gender identity, sexuality, desires and body
+ Sexual difficulties: understanding and gaining practical tools to work through any sexual difficulties you’re having with arousal, orgasm, hyper-vigilance, dysphoria and accessing feelings of pleasure
+ Sex ed: all of the other sex ed content you were never taught at school, with a specific focus on making it all a bit more queer!
PRICING:
*some prices are a sliding scale - pay what you can$45: 30-minute session for individuals or friends.
Do you want to learn with a friend? Do you both have similar areas your interested in exploring/ learning more about? Feel more comfortable having this conversation with a friend present? Pay $45 for two people. As I am not a qualified therapist, I do not take couples/ lovers. Get in contact if you have questions about this.
$65 - 100: 60-minute session for trans, gender diverse, non-binary and gender questioning individuals.
$50: 60-minute session for Aboriginal and/or Torres Strait Islander individuals.
$95-$120: 60-minute session for cis-gender folk.
Pay it forward. Want to pay for someone else to get a session? Please get in contact.
Want to purchase a gift card? I do gift cards of all prices. Please get in contact.
BOOK A FREE 10-MINUTE INTRO CHAT
This is where you can:
+ meet me
+ discuss what you’re interested in (this doesn’t have to be fully formed, we can work this out together!)
+ ask any questions you have
I acknowledge the Traditional Owners of the land on which I reside and work, the Wurundjeri Woi Wurrung and Bunurong peoples of the Kulin Nation, and I pay my respect to their Elders, past, present and emerging. It always was and always will be Aboriginal land.